Saturday, 23 January 2016

A PICTURE THAT EXPLAINS TALES TO TELL



"TALES TO TALE" is just like the picture above. It is my tales of travel, my voice that I want to be heard. It is beautiful, colourful and full of life. Just like the eyes of the child in the picture. My reviews of books, movies or anything related to art and literature. In short, TALES TO TELL is our dream, my husband, friend, philosopher and guide Avishek's and mine. The above collage is the brainchild of mine and his collaboration mentally.We thought a lot about it, searched and got the apt pictures and conglomerated their existences to represent our TALES TO TELL. Hope you enjoy the journey with us.

Written by: Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta
Picture concept by: Avishek Sengupta and Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta

Friday, 22 January 2016

FIVE SIDE EFFECTS OF MODERNISATION

We are progressive. Very and eerie! We have progressed technologically as well as emotionally. The advancements have taken us to different horizons, from where we see the world we once were a part of, stealthily, avoiding being a part of it. We text each other, online and offline, with many heart-warming adjectives, without feeling them, even without meaning them. Life has really come a long way, to replace real feelings with virtual ones. Well, well I am not one of those cursing the new generation and it's ways, not that old yet. However I am definitely one of those, who feels irritated to see 1000 messages to fix a date of a meeting and ultimately dropping the plan. We are gradually moving away from the touches that made life, a little more worthy. The thing about modernization is, not all is negative, infact it is invincible for growth. But yeah surely there are some side effects, whether we admit it or not.

1. Are we loosing our traditions?  Time to think
I remember how proficiently my grandma made irresistible sweets during Sankranthi. We bongs call these "pithe" . My mom makes them too and whenever I am in Kolkata I ask her to make some. But if you ask me, ummm...I am kind of novice in creating these delicacies. Probably my next generation will miss these and some more. Now whom to blame? Myself?..well given to my schedule..I doubt. So I am temped to put the black ink on "modernization" in inverted commas. I am fine saying that my grandma or mom did not have to chase project deadlines or face corporate politics that drains, literally. But then what about the loosing essence of our colorful nation, the tradition, the food and the varied heritage. Can our work-life really out-weigh that? I don't know..

Trying to hold 
on to our traditions..
but how?

2. Weekends mean malls, no longer do we visit each other
When I was a kid, I used to live in a township (READ:MY DREAMY CHILDHOOD) beautiful and serene. On weekends we visited other family friends or they visited us. It was fun believe me. Kids born in 90s' might not have experienced this. Today, we plan either to dine out or catch a movie together. Sudden visits, the snacks, the tea and more importantly the warmth has sublimed to thin air. Given to our schedules, weekends are usually spent oversleeping or planning what to do. Seldom do we just call up and say, "hey open the door, we have come to pay a visit!" Are we becoming robots chasing money...Earlier we used to talk about nucleation of families, now is the era of nucleation of the society. 

Are we robots 
chasing money?

3. Modern day kids are born Tech-Savy
I am completely clueless whether the tech love that has cropped into our lives is good or bad for the new generation kids. I feel strange to see a two year old sitting quietly with a tab in an airport while her/his mom is busy with her laptop. Probably modernisation has taught the new-gen parents to find out short-cuts of keeping their lil ones busy, while they can chase their targets uninhibitedly. While these kids might grow up to be more informed individuals than past generations, but I doubt about their physical strength. As they have not been exposed to the gruelling sun, heavy rains playing football, they have not jumped around and hurt themselves, instead they have plunged into the couch with their video game remotes, so the question is, are we rearing a weaker race with each generation?

Are we rearing  a
weaker race with 
each generation?

4. Virtual world of nothingness
Sometimes back a friend of mine and me was discussing, why social networking is so damn famous. She had said a very interesting point, she said that, deep within us we all want to be famous, talked about and craved for, and this love of ours to be seen is exploited by the social networking creators. We have 500-1000-2000 friends in Facebook etc, but are they "friends"? Definitely not! They are like vote banks, or more precisely like/comment banks, a gauge of judging how popular we are. And somewhere in this mist of nothingness, we have lost real friendships. These days fixing a meeting requires hundreds of messages exchanged, earlier it was just a phone call away. However there are goods too, the virtual social networks have helped to reach out to many in many positive implications and causes. It has a platform for common people to voice their thoughts. 

Lost in the world
of nothingness..
Are we?

5. Slaves to Technology
Technology has changed our lives and has made it better and better. But unconsciously we are becoming slaves to it. We don't remember the mobile numbers, addresses or other important details of even the nearest of ours and sometimes even ours, everything is stored in  some device, and the memory part of the brain is largely unemployed. For shopping we use apps, for banking we use apps, for calling a plumber well again "WE USE APPS". Our habits of going out to get necessary items for living is slowly vanishing. Well these generation of apps suits us, because we don't have time. But what when we become so lazy that we don't even want to use the apps. Well I recently read somewhere that the next gen is gonna have robots to help them, and I think that is where we are heading to....

This is the 
APP Generation

Well, having written all that I have, this is not about conclusion, the discussion is open. Open to you and to you...Tell me what you feel about the SIDE EFFECTS OF MODERNISATION.


Trying to catch up with Time



Written by : Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta
Concept: Avishek Sengupta and Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta

Saturday, 16 January 2016

THE ONE YOU CANNOT HAVE- A book Review

Life has been hectic lately, very! But I managed to complete my first read for 2016 "The one you cannot have" by "Preeti Shenoy". And here I sit to jot my review on the same, again fighting with speeding time.

To start I would say, it was a great read. I thoroughly enjoyed my time with Aman, Shruti and Anjali and yes Rishabh too. The USP of the book, according to me was the simplistic, untainted approach to the life of the main protagonists. A pee-a-boo into their hearts, to be precise and how candidly. A heart to heart connect with the readers, who could actually relate to these unknown people who gradually grow to be a part of their lives, tangible, alive. And that is the beauty of fiction, you unknowingly start living with the characters of the book, to an extent that you start having an opinion on their actions. For example, at the end of the novel, before I read of Aman’s decision to put his past back, I was already pleading him to do so “Anjali does not deserve a back stab” I kept telling myself.

This book is a pure depiction of human relationships and emotional turmoil. There is nothing we donot know, but actually there is no need too. A novel is not an invention, it is a depiction of life in ways depending on the author and her/his thought process. I loved the lucidity which beautifully conglomerates with the approach of the book. Simple, straightforward but honest. Afterall we don’t read books for jargons and never will prefer to sit with a dictionary to understand the essence. Lucidity is what appeals to me and hence this book was an enjoyable, engaging time for me. Thanks a lot Preeti Shenoy, this one was my first of your novels and I look forward to reading more.

Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta



Heart to Heart

What you mean to me, I do not know words to define,
Nor do I feel the necessity to
We express our love day in and day out
Through whatever we say or do!

What you mean to me, I do not know words to define,
A friend, a confidant and a father at times
Your care, your love, makes me what I am
The purity and depth, through you it shines!

What you mean to me, I do not know words to define,
But really do I need to tell
Are my actions not louder than the words I may use?
Because through my veins it propels!

This one was written, about a year back on our love anniversary 13th Feb, suddenly I got hold of it, my feelings floating on a piece of paper. Immediately I decided to make it immortal and hence this post.

Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta




Grass is always greener on the other side...

Honestly I don't know who coined this term and under what context has it actually origined but nevertheless it perfectly defines the thought process of most of us when it comes to our "work place".
Along all these 8 years of my experience i have met, seen and have interacted with thousands of people globally belonging to different fields and hirearchy but one thing is very common in all of them (including me)......tendency to compare their own-self to some else, irrespective they know or don't know.
The strange fact is this very criteria of comparison varies from person to person and might be guided by his or her socio -economic status, job function, organisation, country of residence, educational degree and won't be much wrong if appearance also plays a role along with many other factors to name. The biggest irony is "what science or technology" has to do with all these traits but still knowingly or unknowingly we practise this.
So where competition of comparison is so tough, then why not to compare job functions or enterprises?? And to be honest, from the very day LinkedIn has stepped in, the completion has gone even more fierce when the victim's picture and role lies right in front of us with a tag line at the bottom glorifying the hierarchy in bold. Although i am not too sure on what typical questions pops up in mind of others but nevertheless...."what am I doing here or God when will be my turn" are supposedly a few out of them.
But what makes us think that?? Why someone who hasn't seen the other side feels that grass is greener there?? Is it just a perception or just a mere self consolation to what we are doing currently??
I think the more relevant question is why we need to compare and what we compare. To me over these years i have always thought in the same way without understanding why grass might be greener on other side. For some it might be incentives, for others its might be office politics, some might be thirsty of knowledge or power. But definitively i guess none has ever successfully answered to this HR question......."Why you want to leave this job" and the irony is none has ever know what the correct answer is supposed to be, coz for all the "Grass has always remained Greener on the other side"
By: Avishek Sengupta


Friday, 15 January 2016

An Ode to Love

When I drown amidst the ocean of nothingness
An impermeable mist envelops my course of life
My head reels and pulse races
To strike a delicious balance, my heart does strive.

The clouds lie low and waves are fiendish
The heaviness of the heart is beyond exegesis
I look around for a ray of hope
And the hope is you, my only bliss!

Some say I am over emotional
Some say I lack the same
The only heart who does not mean to judge
Its yours my love, you can my emotions tame.

When I lack a direction, when I lack oxygen
A hand appears to hold my frail
When I look around with my eyes overflowing with gratitude
Its you again, you reached me though I had left no trail!

I sit by the lake and watch the flamingos around
The setting sun and crimson rays
That I crave to return to my nest of love
It is purely for you, my heart there stays.

Love is an expression
There is no right and no wrong
To me you define Love
The one that I want to sing, you are that song!


To my hubby Avishek for being my best pal
Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta


Me and Avishek




Tuesday, 12 January 2016

Har Har Byomkesh - A Movie Review

I review movies because I have a voice and I am extremely vocal about my opinions. I believe that we being the consumers have every right to accept or discard a product, but when it comes to art the market is not that straight forward, because tangible emotions go in, to produce that. And the resultant product is more like a living being, breathing the creator's breathe. So reviewing a movie or a book, it not like reviewing a lipstick or fairness cream, it is of utmost importance to be sensible.
 
Last Saturday we went for a movie after a long time and that too a Bengali Movie. Well, I will be frank, when it comes to Bengali Cinema tad bit bias happen to peep into my heart. But yet I will try to be brutally honest, given to the responsibility I owe to my readers.
 
Literary maestro Sharadindu Bandyopadhyay's celebrated creation, detective Byomkesh Bakshi, has been the inspiration of many a story-tellers to transform those intriguing tales on celluloid or motion pictures as they say. Now who can forget Rajit Kapur as Byomkesh or recently Sushant Singh Rajput for that matter. However back in Bengal, as we link Feluda to Soumitra Chattopadyay or Sabyasachi Chakraborty, Byomkesh has become synonymous to Abir Chatterjee. Abir has very elegantly, portrayed the poise, intelligence and masculine grace of Byomkesh Bakshi, in all the movies he had played him. And Har Har Byomkesh directed by Arindam Sil is no exception either.
 
Staged by the Holy Ganga in Varanasi, Har Har Byomkesh is an engaging Murder Mystery. Byomkesh, his friend and partner in crime Ajit and his newly wedded wife Satyabati come to Varanasi for a vacation and mostly certainly end up solving a Murder mystery surrounding the wealthiest family of the place. Love, betrayal, infidelity, lust and wealth a dangerous conglomeration of behaviours and emotions make the journey through the tale, like the winding path of a menacing mountain which end with a beautiful scenic treat. As in, at the end, Byomkesh spills the beans dramatically, like curtain call.
 
The cast Abir Chatterjee, Ritwick Chakraborty, Nusrat Jahan, Sohini Sarkar and others led by the captain of the ship Arindam Sil have come together and put together an fascinating tale of mystery, which gave me and my husband Avishek a beautiful Saturday, so thanks and congratulations.
 
 
Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta
 
 

Sunday, 10 January 2016

I want to spread the vibe of humanity

Terror attacks are a part of living these days. Whether it is Pathankot or Paris, no place whatsoever have been spared of the poisonous fangs in the name of religion, liberation and what not. With this exponential increase of terrorisation of normal human life, there is an exponential increase of hatred too. A boiling pool of wrath to avenge for the deceased, the lost lives, the broken families is existent in the very heart of my Nation or the World as a whole. Frankly I am a firm believer of the singularity of the existence of the divine power. I don’t believe in distinguishing between Rama, Allah or Jesus. Given to this inherent inculcation in the deepest of me, it pains to see this growing loath in the name of Religious beliefs. I have always compelled myself to believe that terrorism is an insatiable extremism preached by people who have been brought up with a sense of alienation and jeopardy. It is anything but a religion. But unfortunately each time the name of a dreaded face of terrorism surfaces new-channels, papers or magazines, that seem to associate with Islam. But I personally have many Muslim friends and generalisation will be the last thing I would do, poisoning my liberated thought process with conjectures infused by a bunch of morons. However, some unwanted surmise happen to nest within us, through our unguarded subconscious.

I don’t know how I did not write about this earlier. Or maybe my deeply embedded emotions were waiting for the apt trigger to show. And probably this call to spread the vibe, created that desired vent for preserved emotions to let out and spread. Last year during the famous rains of Mumbai, though it rained desperately less in 2015, there was one not so fine day when the sky had enfolded a menacing grey and the rains refused to stop. And unfortunately I had to step out of my house for reasons irrelevant to this post. Before I was part of this maddening yet intriguing city of dreams, Mumbai, I had always craved to see the beauty of the marine drive when the rains came rumbling down. The googled images were always so romantic. But they never explained of the never ending jams, the chaos and lack of commuting means that impair the city during rains.

My husband was out of country and I needed something desperately and hence decided to step out in the downpour, carefully selecting a time in the afternoon when the rains had mellowed a bit. But to my utter horror, when I completed my work and decided to get back home the rain was violent to be precise. I don’t drive and hence there I was standing around 4 kms from my home, waiting for an auto, cab or anything under the sky that could take me back and safely.

The Sky was as if pouring incessantly to quench the never dying thirst of the greedy. City life was crippled completely. The so called life line of Mumbai, Locals had come to a grinding halt due to water on the tracks. The roads were jammed and water logging everywhere. I stood with a poker face drenched even with an umbrella, trying to get a means to commute. Cabs, Autos fled by, none would stop just like the rains. Suddenly the otherwise friendly city, turned insensitive. I stood for hours and it was nearing darkness. I thought I would walk, but seeing the water logging and road conditions I dreaded to start off.

Suddenly an auto stopped in front. By then my hands were tired gesturing them to stop. I evidently looked in despair. “Where do you want to go?” asked a man in his late twenties. When I told him my address, he hesitated for a minute or two but eventually said yes. When I got in, I saw a Burkha clad girl already seated inside. My unknown conjecture suddenly surfaced and my heart faced a sudden attack of fear “Oh God” I shuddered internally, “I hope these are good people”. Her face was bare, she smiled at me to my relief. The guy sped past the water clogged city and the girl talked to me. They were actually a couple, going to visit the guy’s mother. On seeing my sad state they decided to give me a lift. But my house was not in their way, yet they decided not to leave me alone in the heart of the drenching city. “This city has seen floods madam, it is not safe to be outside at this hour” said the girl. I paid them more than the normal fare, which they took with lot of hesitation.

They sped past leaving me with an answer. With the growing intolerance of one Religion for the other, at times I wondered whether goodness and compassion has anything to do with that. But now I know Compassion knows no religion. And in this terror stricken world, that young couple inspired me to hold on to my thoughts and let no external turbulence impact. They inspired me to spread the vibe of humanity and love.

Looking to get inspired click on the following link to indulge : YOUTH KI AWAAZ

Let us preach Religious Harmony 
our little ways and make this society
better. Let terrorism not infect our 
thoughts




 Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta

Tuesday, 5 January 2016

Rendezvous with the gone by year


Years come and pass by, creating memories fair

Love, hatred, creativity all that happens is dear

Neither do I regret, nor do I mourn

I only happen to cherish the moments that have flown….

Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta

2015 has flown by, unknowingly, beautifully creating worthy memories for me. Well, well that is my generic feeling after every year. At times I am sad, furious and irritable but when I look back, I transform to an eternal optimist, only the brighter parts appear to me, the dullness vanishes to thin air. But really, the gone by 365 days of 2015, were more than fulfilling for reasons one and many.

The year had started off with a longing trip to our hometown “Kolkata”, the city which really is a reason of joy to us. Enjoying winters, delectable mommy special coffee and beautiful time composing narratives on the bed, I have spent many memorable nights on. My in-laws had arranged a wonderful get together for our belated anniversary celebrations in “The Park Hotel”. Truly a well spent day, with close knit family, Rabindra Sangeet and offcourse sumptuous Bengali cuisines.

Read by post: Family makes us complete

Then our glorious encounter with nature, with moms to accompany created many narratives out of me. Gangtok is truly beauteous and serene, words defy to define this Paula Dona’s grandeur.

Read my posts on Gangtok:

Returning was never easy, work suddenly seemed to burden more and hurt our backs. But there was reward on the professional front too. I got promoted, yes I proudly stepped a radar higher. Oh Yes! There was quick trip to Lavasa too in between.

Read my post on Lavasa: Vacay at Lavasa

2015 was fulfilling to the narrator Aritra as well. No, I don’t make money out of my narrations, and I believe I will not do so in near future. My chemical engineering keeps me dreadfully occupied, to invest time to monetize my hobby. But there is good news, I completed the manuscript of my first novel and will definitely get it published this year. Fingers crossed!!

I also learned a lot about the blogging sphere and attended “BNLF” organised by “Indiblogger”. So the gone by year, added a lot a creative people to my friend list and humongous knowledge on content creation and content marketing to my knowhow. I met great bloggers, authors and content creators, who have encouraged me to envisage a journey of delicious content created from the gray-matter of mine.

Read my post on BNLF: Commemorating BNLF


ME AT BNLF

And offcourse the cherry to my 2015 cake, was the most awaited break to Udaipur on my birthday, where I and my hubby enjoyed a royal treatment to shed off all the sluggishness that encrusted our free spiritedness. Udaipur was a carnival, return to life.

Read my posts on Udaipur:

Life is worth living. Though stress and absence of work life balance happen to snatch sanity away at times. But family keeps you grounded. To me my husband is the constant source of happiness, life, encouragement and hope. And so with that I wrap up, time to catch some sleep before starting another exhaustive and eventful day of 2016, the newly born year. Till I write next, bye all. Wish you all the best for the memories you are going to create this year. To me I have many dreams and am looking forward to making them true.

I'm sharing my #TalesOf2015 with Blogadda
Cheers to life!!!


Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta




Sunday, 3 January 2016

My Date with Nature

The golden sand reflected its glory on to my eyes
The wind was wild and fiendish
Waters swelled in anguish pure
No one knew how to squish.

I walked in awe and amazement pure
Nature knows every means to allure
A beauty so untold and unheard of
Convincing each soul to demure.

The softness of the sand nuzzled my feet
The wind hid in my hair
Waves lovingly came up to me
There was a strange gaiety in the air.

I walked unknown to the surroundings so
My gaze fixed to the horizon unsure
Forgetful of all the pains
Tranquility for me is the best cure.

Happiness is cuddling greenery and smelling flowers
Happiness to me is watching the birds fly
The worthiest gift I can ever get
I loosing myself to nature's far cry.

Aritra Chakrabarty Sengupta

pic courtesy: Avishek Sengupta